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03-26A Psychologist Says Parents Who Raise Resilient, Socially Intelligent Kids Always Do 5 Things During ‘Hard Times’

We all want to raise resilient, confident and socially intelligent kids. As a psychologist who specializes in adolescent development, I’ve found that the key is for parents to provide reassurance starting at a young age.

Kids, especially teens and tweens, sometimes need validation that what they are thinking and feeling is normal and okay. In fact, psychologists believe that validation is one of the most powerful parenting tools, and yet it is often left out of traditional behavioral parent training programs.

Validating your child’s feelings doesn’t necessarily mean you condone or agree with the actions they take. It simply means showing that you hear, understand and accept them. This can help teach them to effectively label their own emotions and be more in tune with their social environments, thereby increasing emotional intelligence.

Here’s how successful parents convey these important messages during hard times:

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03-25 How Did Euphoria Become Entertainment for Kids?

HBO’s Euphoria is basking in its record-breaking viewership, ranked as the number one most in-demand show in the U.S. last month. Though popular is an understatement with 13.1 million viewers, calling the show a “Sunday-night darling” is quite the misnomer.

At first glance, Euphoria is your typical coming-of-age drama series set in high school. IMDB describes the plot as a group of high school students that navigate love and friendships. But love couldn’t be harder to find in Euphoria. The show spends a bulk of its airtime on the darkest experiences teens could possibly encounter, such as severe drug addictions, sexual insecurities, depression and anxiety, revenge porn, and child rape, all the while showcasing full-frontal male and female nudity and graphic sex scenes. And there’s no powerful takeaway making it all worth it. As the AV Club dubbed the show’s first season, “HBO’s Euphoria is a gorgeous, empty spectacle.” I’d say, worse than empty, it’s filled with damaging content that could cause damaging effects offscreen.

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03-24 Deshaun Watson’s Trade to the Cleveland Browns is Shocking & Normalizes Sexual Exploitation – Please Sign Petition & Demand Accountability

Recently, the Cleveland Browns offered a historic $230million to acquire Deshaun Watson, a well-known talent as a quarterback in the National Football League (NFL). However, that impressive sum of money fails to capture a critical component in this significant moment for the Browns and the NFL. What exactly is that missing piece? The quarterback in question Deshaun Watson has numerous outstanding allegations of sexual misconduct against him, facing 22 active civil suits accusing him of sexual assault and misconduct.

We at the National Center on Sexual Exploitation are gravely concerned with this decision from the Browns and Deshaun Watson, as well as the NFL’s larger pattern of tolerance for exploitation within and across its ranks.

Watson’s Trade Inadvertently Minimizes Survivor Voices

Watson’s trade to the Cleveland Browns is being touted as historic due to the contract guaranteeing him more money and more years than to any player in the history of the NFL. However, never in history has such a contract been extended to an individual with such a highly questionable track record of sexual misconduct.

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03-23 Lynn’s Warriors & Coalition of Child Safety Advocates Send Letter to Congress Urging Them to Pass Legislation to Protect Kids and Teens Online

Advocates urge Congress to pass online kids' safety reforms
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Tech and children’s health advocacy groups on Tuesday sent a letter to congressional leaders urging them to pass legislation providing protections for kids and teens online.

The letter follows President Biden’s call for social companies to be held accountable for their impact on kids’ safety during his first State of the Union address earlier this month and builds on bipartisan momentum in Congress to add additional regulations.

“The current unregulated business model for digital media is fundamentally at odds with children’s wellbeing. Digital platforms are designed to maximize revenue, and design choices that increase engagement and facilitate data collection, all of which put children at risk,” the advocates wrote, according to a copy of the letter shared with The Hill.

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03-22 The Dark Side of Platform Discord for Teens

When a mother in Washington state learned her teenage daughter was on Discord, a popular social media platform, she felt reasonably comfortable with the idea of her using it to communicate with members of her high school marching band.

But in September, the mother discovered the 16-year-old was also using the audio and chat service to message with someone who appeared from his profile picture to be an older man. The stranger, who said he lived in England, entered a group chat that included her daughter and members of the band, according to the mother. They struck up a friendship in a private thread. He asked for nude pictures; her daughter obliged.
“I went through every chat they ever had but the most disturbing thing, beyond the nudes, was that he asked her to send a picture of our house,” said the mother, who, like other parents of young Discord users, asked to remain anonymous, citing concerns about their family’s privacy. “My daughter went on Zillow, found our home and sent it, so he knew where she lives. He then asked what American school buses looked like, so she took a photo of her bus and sent it.” He then requested pictures of her friends, and she sent those, too.
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03-20 LifeWay Network: Ending Human Trafficking. Reclaiming Life.

Commentary from LifeWay Educator – As a human trafficking educator, I often post and respond to comments on social media as an additional way of engaging the public. A while back, I was scrolling through my feed one day when I came across a post that addressed the intersection of human trafficking and race. In agreement, I commented on the post: “Yes! Human Trafficking is a race issue.” My reply generated a few likes, but one reply caught my attention: “No, it’s a human issue.” This response gave me pause.

While, yes, it is true that victims and survivors of trafficking come from different backgrounds, it would be highly dismissive to ignore that women of color are disproportionately trafficked, arrested, and unjustly penalized for crimes they were forced to commit while trafficked. The survivors living in LifeWay safe houses are predominantly Black and Brown women. As a minority-led organization, one of the organization’s goals is to resist retraumatizing residents and to strive for a more culturally competent culture. Instead of ignoring it, we acknowledge and celebrate it.

Weekly community dinners provided a space for residents, LifeWay’s community, and staff to build relationships and learn from one another over culturally diverse meals. The staff and residents previously maintained a map of the world and indicated the different countries residents and staff come from. To date, LifeWay has serviced women from 30+ countries beyond the United States.

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03-19 Calling All New Yorkers! Do You Want A Brothel Next Door? Join Us & Take Action.

We believe in equality and justice for all. To achieve this vision in New York State, we must address the sex trade, especially prostitution, through a solution that will shrink this exploitative industry and provide resources to those impacted by it. The lifelong psychological harm and trauma the sex trade causes can never be regulated away. As an alliance, we seek to: 

Decriminalize people who are bought and sold in the multi-billion dollar sex trade. It’s called the Equality Model

  • Fund and implement comprehensive services, including housing, trauma-informed medical and mental health services, education and job training, for people in prostitution. These must include exit strategies for those who wish to leave the sex trade. 

  • Hold sex buyers accountable for the lifelong harm and trauma they cause through demand-focused laws and policies that will also work to shrink the sex trade, preventing more people from being pulled into harm’s way and decreasing sex trafficking.

  • Educate the public and policymakers about the reality of the sex trade, including the harmful effects of sex buying & pimping on people in prostitution.

  • Shift the stigma associated with prostitution from those in the sex trade to the sex buyers and exploiters who cause real harm.

  • Protect the most vulnerable and marginalized in our State: women & girls, especially of color, members of Black & Brown communities, the LGBTQ+ population, run away and foster youth, individuals experiencing homelessness, and undocumented immigrants.

  • Hold pimps, traffickers, and brothel & illicit massage parlor owners accountable.

AF3IRM is a national organization of women engaged in transnational feminist, anti-imperialist activism and dedicated to the fight against oppression in all its forms.  AF3IRM’s diverse, multi-ethnic membership is committed to militant movement-building from the United States and effects change through grassroots organizing, trans-ethnic alliance building, education, advocacy and direct action.

CATW is one of the oldest international organizations working to end the trafficking and sexual exploitation of women and girls. Through an approach rooted in women’s rights and human rights principles, we advocate for strong laws and policies, raise public awareness, and support survivor leadership. We seek to create a world where no woman or girl is ever bought or sold.

For more than four decades, Covenant House has helped transform and save the lives of more than a million homeless, runaway and trafficked young people. We offer housing and support services to young people in need.

ECPAT USA

As the leading policy organization in the United States seeking to end the commercial, sexual exploitation of children, ECPAT-USA focuses on awareness, advocacy, policy, and legislation. ECPAT-USA is a member of ECPAT International, a network of organizations in 95 countries working together toward one common mission: to eliminate the sexual exploitation of children.

In partnership with grassroots groups, Equality Now raises international visibility of individual cases of abuse, mobilizes public support through its global membership, and wields strategic political pressure to ensure that governments enact or enforce laws and policies that uphold the rights of women and girls.

MENTARI

Mentari translates to the sun in Indonesian. Victims of human trafficking are kept in the dark every day, Mentari believes in helping survivors and bringing them back into the light. We mentor and empower survivors of violence, abuse, exploitation, and trafficking. Our mission is to bring survivors back into the community and thrive independently.

In full partnership with families and communities, Graham Windham strives to make a life-altering difference with children, youth and families who are overcoming some of life’s most difficult challenges and obstacles, by helping to build a strong foundation for life: a safe, loving, permanent family and the opportunity and preparation to thrive in school and in the world.

LifeWay Network joins the global movement against human trafficking by providing safe housing for women who have been trafficked and offering education about trafficking to the general public.

Formed in September 2020, Lynn’s Warriors is committed to ending human trafficking and sexual exploitation by raising awareness through grassroots mobilization, advocacy, education and policy. Founder Lynn Shaw’s radio program on WVOX sheds light on these issues every week.

The New York State Anti-Trafficking Coalition is a group of organizations that have joined forces to increase public awareness of human trafficking in our communities, enact anti-trafficking laws, improve law enforcement response and increase social services to help people escape trafficking.

NOT ON MY WATCH! Combats human trafficking and domestic violence through educational training and community engagement; court and policy advocacy; and providing support and resources for victims and survivors.

NOW-NYC

NOW-NYC ignites change for the women and girls of New York. We advance laws, promote women in politics, fight for reproductive justice, challenge discrimination and violence against women, and act NOW.

The Rochester Regional Coalition Against Human Trafficking was founded in 2013 to harness the passion of this community into action. After many meetings between all stakeholders in the community, RRCAHT decided that its role in the community would be to fill gaps that existing service providers accomplish. In particular, RRCAHT became a force for public education and legislative advocacy around human trafficking in the greater Rochester area.

SAFE’s mission is to expose human trafficking and domestic violence. SAFE is committed to alleviating the suffering of those who are being trafficked by providing safe housing, education, and survivors mentoring training. We are also committed to raising awareness on public, political and church platforms to stop this horrific violence.  SAFE is dedicated to empowering these women to have a voice through council and emotional healing. SAFE’s objective is to promote these victims not only to survive but to succeed in life.

Sanctuary for Families is New York’s leading service provider and advocate for survivors of domestic violence, sex trafficking and related forms of gender violence. Every year, we empower thousands of adults and children to move from fear and abuse to safety and stability, transforming lives through a range of comprehensive services and advocacy.

World Without Exploitation was born of a series of conversations among exploitation and trafficking survivors, human rights and gender justice advocates, artists, activists, and direct service providers. We’re united in the belief that we won’t end exploitation until we confront its root causes. We know that an injustice that goes unseen is an injustice that goes unchallenged. And challenging a world in which human beings are being trafficked and exploited is what World Without Exploitation is all about.

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03-18 Rachel Foster: Burlington Controversy Part of Effort to Decriminalize Sex Trade

This was never about merely cleaning up archaic language.

Months before Burlington’s Town Meeting Day, sex trade survivors — including those bought and sold in Vermont — sounded the alarm regarding a dangerous “bait and switch” when it came to revoking wording in the city charter governing prostitution. Initially executed under the cover of darkness, we flagged a well-organized plan to rev up a charter language issue to be used as a fig leaf in a sneaky effort to make pimping, sex buying and brothel owning legal throughout the Green Mountain State.

To be clear, everyone wanted to eliminate the charter’s antiquated, offensive wording. A simple amendment to language could have accomplished this goal. But that wasn’t done, and the reasons for this deception are crystal clear.

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