Protect our Children

Celebrities young women have sparked controversy over their increasingly hypersexualized imagery and performances. While much of the commentary has dismissed or minimized the criticisms as prudish or an attack on women’s self-expression, in the wake of an ongoing public reckoning around figures like Jeffrey Epstein — and amid growing awareness about the normalization of child exploitation on and offline — these concerns deserve far more serious consideration.

Some defending Olivia Rodrigo, for example, argue that many female rock stars have donned the babydoll dress before, often as part of an edgy or punk rock aesthetic. Artists like Courtney Love of Hole and Kim Gordon of Sonic Youth used hyper-feminine imagery in ways that felt raw, chaotic, or openly defiant. But there is a substantial difference between Love’s rage-filled music and smeared makeup that grappled with themes like sexual violence in songs like Jennifer Brody’s— and Rodrigo seductively crawling across the stage in pink ruffled bloomers while performing her love song “Drop Dead.” What, exactly, is subversive or artistic about the latter?

The truth is that the sexualization of children and very young girls in media, fashion, entertainment, and celebrity culture is not harmless “art,” edgy aesthetics, or innocent self-expression detached from consequence. Culture shapes norms, and norms shape behaviors. Research across psychology, media studies and violence prevention has shown that repeated exposure to the objectification and sexualization of girls influences how society views them, how young girls view themselves and how adults perceive children. In fact, if you do a simple Google search for “ruffled bloomers for adult women” you instantly get multiple hits with the word “Lolita” in the title, including, “Women’s Lolita bloomers cute ruffle shorts lace,” “Lolita bloomers with layered ruffles,” “Lolita lace ruffle pettipants,” “Women’s lace ruffle bloomers Lolita mini shorts,” available everywhere from Target to Victoria Secret to Kohls.

When celebrities and entertainment industries market hyper-sexualized content to massive teen and tween audiences — especially imagery that intentionally blurs the line between child and adult sexuality — it contributes to a culture that normalizes the treatment of girls as objects for consumption rather than children deserving of protection. TV shows that commodify children’s appearance and desirability, industries that market provocative aesthetics to increasingly younger age groups, and media that package little girl imagery for adult consumption all play a major role in shifting cultural boundaries. It helps to explain why one of the top searched terms on Pornhub each year was consistently the word “teen” before they deliberately banned it  and related terms like “young girl,” “child,” and “underage.”

This does not mean that every artist, actor, or viewer intends harm. But intent does not erase impact. Survivors, advocates, and child protection experts speak out about these issues when they occur because they have seen the real-life consequences firsthand.

In 2024, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children received 20.5 million reports of suspected online child sexual exploitation, representing roughly 29.2 million separate incidents involving child exploitation online. That same year, the organization received more than 546,000 reports of online child enticement– up 192% from 2023 (186,800 reports). At the same time, the CDC reported 53% of girls conveyed “persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness”— in other words, more than half of all teenage girls said they felt sad or hopeless almost every day for at least two weeks a year. Twenty-seven percent said they had seriously considered suicide. When people dismiss concerns about the commercialization and sexualization of little girls as “just clothing,” “just TV,” or “just art,” they ignore the broader ecosystem that shapes what becomes acceptable, marketable, and normalized.

Critiquing these industries is not about policing women or attacking creativity. It is about asking why innocence is increasingly commodified , why childlike aesthetics are so often sexualized for profit, and why concerns raised by survivors and child advocacy communities are routinely downplayed. Protecting children requires acknowledging that media and culture are not neutral forces — they influence attitudes, norms, and behaviors in significant ways.

Safety for our youth requires more than merely prosecuting individual abusers after harm has occurred. It requires examining the cultural conditions that normalize exploitation long before it reaches that point. It also must include corporate responsibility and meaningful safeguards — including passing the bipartisan Kids Online Safety Act, S. 1748, to ensure children’s safety comes before big tech’s profits. We must remember that child victims rarely have the power, wealth, or platforms to advocate for themselves. They do not have lobbyists, publicists, or political action committees amplifying their voices or needs.

Survivors and advocates speak out because these dynamics are not abstract or theoretical to the youth we serve; and they are the ones bearing these consequences. Many are sounding the alarm today because they do not want another generation of young girls to inherit a culture that’s far too comfortable commodifying their innocence for profit. We can’t afford to wait.

 

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